My Wife Is Fat, My Husband Is Fat-What You Can Do
My wife is fat, what can I do? My husband is fat, what can I do? Well of course maybe to some people it doesn’t matter. If you’re reading this however, it is important.
• The first thing is that you must talk to them about it. This part isn’t easy. No one that’s heavy really wants to be confronted about it or really talk about their weight issues. Don’t make them feel guilty or they’ll take comfort in eating that much more. Sympathize and be supportive and your loved one will feel closer to you and more likely to respect your reasons for bringing this up.
• Don’t be controlling. The method of weight loss has to be up to your spouse. If it’s not something they can commit to, it won’t work. Share the plan with your loved one be it an exercise routine or a diet plan. Don’t tempt them by plowing down the sweets and carbs. You’ll feel healthier too.
• My wife is fat, she’s not turning me on. If you love your wife, go easy. They have undoubtedly picked up the vibe that you don’t see them as way sexy and that hurts. You need to be loving and doing whatever you can to build their self esteem and give positive strokes as they forge through this attempt at physical and mental change.
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